My husband and I moved to Colorado when I was pregnant and I had my daughter in Colorado. He has since lost his job, refuses to get another one, is an alcoholic, up all night and sleeps until the afternoon. He doesn't help with our baby at all and gets verbally abusive when he's drunk (which is a LOT).
Last night I had it. He was in my face screaming like a psychopath right in front of our daughter. Then he took the keys to my car and left (yes, while he was drunk). My family is back in Arizona and I want to take our daughter back there and file for divorce and custody. Every time I call an attorney they say they will only talk to me in person, which I can't do.
I do not think he is capable of being a responsible parent. Getting him to change a diaper or even make a bottle is like pulling teeth. He wont get help for his alcoholism. He's already went through drug rehab 9 months ago and claims the judge wont find out because it was confidential. I haven't worked since 2008 and he says he'll get custody because I can't provide for our baby. I don't know what to do.
Posted by Anonymous who is out of options on Aug 16, 2011 at 8:38 PM
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First of all, he won't get custody if he's an alcoholic. Not only that but you can get state aid once you get custody they will start getting him for back pay in child support. If you're man enough to stick your dick in that shit then you better be man enough to take care of what might come out. What a waste of life leave his ass.
Move to New York. Mothers always get the kids in divorces there.
Mike